It’s been an incredibly long 18 months.
After 18 months of surviving my brothers accident – from Trauma ICU, 8 weeks in a rehab hospital, 6 month of therapy and 12 weeks of daily hyperbaric appts. My mom lived with me in CO for 6 months helping me so I could work. God has blessed me with the best of a terrible situation.
I am exhausted. My brain is going to places that are beyond sad. While I feel I’ve been frozen in time for 18 months – the world has not.
I am mourning 18 months. Coming to realize I’m not that brave, but definitely a coward. I can be strong and brave for others, but not for myself. I am drowning in the things of the past, and the decisions that I felt I did wrong – and would make me a different person, maybe one I’d be more proud of.
I look at the last 12 years, and I can see every moment where someone walked away and took a piece of that person I was – I haven’t been able to replace those pieces for new ones. And with the exhaustion of the last months has made me beyond exhausted. I cannot explain the fear and stress stretched out over 18 months, and drowning in exhaustion.
I felt unloveable before, and even more so now. And now, when I’m struggling to deal with has happened, and just want someone to love me, not because I fought to take care of my brother, or because I’m strong for my parents – but ME, while I’m too tired to love myself.
There is a purpose for everything God leads us to and through – I pray for growth and learning this year. Making sure I do things that make me happy, and I can be proud of those choices.
Here’s to a new of living your choices, and being happy.