This is for both Men and Ladies: If you want honesty, you need to be able to give it and take it. Everything is just a game.
If you say you want honesty, you need to be honest with your partner, and with yourself. Because if you can’t be honest with yourself, everything you say is a fucking lie.
The point of having a honesty in a relationship is to grow as people and as a couple. By lying to yourself, and your partner, you’re doing nothing but playing games. It’s not easy, and it usually causes some hurt feelings. But if you truly respect and care about someone, you’ll be willing to give them the honesty they deserve.
So, if you can grow a pair and be honest with your partner, you’re awesome.
If you can’t, Fuck off.
Because it’s better to leave someone with the truth, then to leave them with “What happened?”