The ultimate kiss of death to ANY relationship… is to believe you know that person completely.
We are human, we are constantly changing and evolving. Everyday we are faced with new challenges and experiences that change us, whether the change is a baby step or a huge leap, we change.
Some days… it’s easy to wonder how well I even know myself. I would hate to love and care about someone who becomes so complacent, they will not notice the daily struggles I go through.
Loving someone isn’t about knowing a person “inside and out”… it’s about growing with them. Supporting them daily during those small and large conflicts and challenges. It’s about being there, and not giving up.
Just because a person is silent, doesn’t mean they don’t want to talk or be with you.
It could mean they don’t know what to do, so they choose silence.