I firmly believe in honesty. I don’t understand why males, or females, use “lines” to catch a lay or a partner. If you want something, or don’t want something, just say it.
But do NOT feed me the “I’m an asshole” line… quickly followed by “You deserve someone better”. Fuck you. If you don’t have the balls to just say you don’t want me, just walk away. It has the same results.
You can’t tell a Lady you want respect and honesty, when that’s not what you’re giving. Do a Lady a favor, and just tell us what you want. In the long run, it hurts less to just know.
Because the doubts, the unknown, and having no answers, is much worse. If you’ve ever cared about the person you are in a relationship with, care enough to be honest so they can let go.